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Lonely????????????? Heres the thing, im a 15 year old girl and i just feel lonely. Like i have a good friend, i cant exactly talk to her about things. I dont have a boyfriend, and i just feel lonely all the time. And i know the teenage years are like lonely and depressing, but i just want someone who i can confide in, and all that. Like all my friends have boyfriends, but i dont want someone to go out with for the sake of it, im just lonely in general.

My husky is lonely during the day when im at work. Should I adopt another dog? I have plenty of time to devote to my husky after 4:00p.m. But she seems to be lonely while i'm gone. My neighber says she will just lay on the living room floor most of the time i'm gone. Should I adopt anoter dog to keep her company? She is used to living with two other dogs. I just moved out of my parents house. They have two dogs. I can afford food and vet care for another dog. That would not be a problem. I just don't want two lonely dogs on my hands. This was a suggestion from my neighber. She comes over to let my husky out to do her business at 12 noon. Wow, I wish I could choose two best answers. Pebblespro- Thank you, I never thought about doggie day care, I'll check into it. WM/ll- Funny thing is, I already take her on two walks a day, I didn't think about her just being tired. Thank both of you, and everyone who left a asnwer.

How do you get through long lonely days ahead of you? I took the chances to be alone, but I have no ideas--it will be this lonely. I know they are a long lonely road ahead of me. It may take years to get there. The question is how should I deal with the empty, lonely, and broken feelings at the present time. I pretend like I am fine. The facts is I am really lonely and burnt physically and mentally. I don't have parents, good friends, or partners around me at this times (It has been like this in the past 5 years). Thank you.

What should I do about my unexpectedly lonely pet male mouse? My husband and I had two mice, brothers who occassionally faught but overall did well together, living in the same cage. Unexpectedly Clive died a little over a week ago, so Grady is now left alone. We can't introduce a new species or a new mouse for fear of him killing either, what should we do to keep him from becoming depressed or lonely?

What to do for my cat who seems lonely since our dog died last week? My cat is 14, not likely to accept a new pet, which we in the house aren't keen to do just yet either. We are still mourning the death of our beloved 11 year old dog. But my cat seems lonely, and I wonder if I'm crazy for thinking that.

What is a book that deals with the main character being lonely? It is for an english assignment. I need to find a good book about someone that feels like they are an outcast and/or is lonely. Any good books (fictional) like that?

what you do when you suddenly get lonely? I wanted to read more and etc that I just started homeschooling few months ago, yet it's kinda hard to find myself into studying, and I sometimes get lonely. Any advice would be real helpful, especially from your experience would be really great. Thank you in advance.

What is the best way to help people who feel lonely? I have read several posts from people who say they feel lonely and I would like to help but I don't know how. I think it's sad that in a world full of people someone should have to feel that way. What do lonely people want, and what, if anything, can we all do to help?

How to live an isolated and lonely life? For many reasons I chose and I 'm forced to live an isolated and lonely life. I have no family, and basically no friends except some friendly coworkers. I'm also moving to a different area, building myself a dream-house, and will work from home on my business which I love. Everything is really great in my like exept I'm totally lonely. Not that I really perceive it to be a bad situation, but I have some doubts for the long run. For many years I have been struggling with the sense of isolation, but now I totally accepted it and I'm founding out that there are advantages on being lonely (lots of time, create your own pojects, do lots for others and so on). Does anybody have my same experience or living the same lifestyle? And what does it take to be happy in that situation? What do you do when it gets really bad during holidays? I do have a dog, so dont just say "get a pet" lol. Thanx I appreciate any contribution this is a big step for me.

What should I do to keep my cat from being lonely? I am going away in 2 weeks for about 4 days. I did this once before but when I got back it seemed like my cat was very lonely when I was gone. I know that the best thing to do would be to get another cat, but right now I can't afford to get a cat and get it all of its shots. I don't want to risk getting one and having it give something to the one I have now. Any advice for what I should do so he doesn't get lonely when I'm gone?

How to keep a dog from getting lonely.? I have a peekapom (Pekingese/Pomeranian). She's about 8 months old. I've had her for about a month. I work 8-5 and am not able to stay home with her. I've been noticing that she is super excited when I get home, and I am thinking that she is really lonely. I come home at lunch time to take her outside, and play, but when I leave, she just looks pitiful. This will only be temporary because I am going to be financially able to stay at home soon. Any suggestions? FYI, my husband is allergic to cats and getting another dog is out of the question.

How can I keep from getting depressed and lonely? I have been widowed for 1 1/2 years. Still feel lonely and depressed.

How do i know if my Dwarf Gourami is lonely? I have a new 8 gallon Biocube which is currently stocked with 3 Glofish and 1 Dwarf Gourami. Everyone seems healthy and happy but i keep reading about gourami getting lonely. Can I add another without taxing the system? does it have to be of the same color? Isn't 8 gallons too small for 2 gouramis?

How do I tell if my guinea pig is lonely? My guinea pig, Oreo wheeks a-lot but not for food. I rarely put him with the other guinea pigs because he fights them and he is a very dominant male. He'll hump all the girls and fight the boys. Also, he never whistles but he has chirped before and he makes good noises when I hold him and pet him plus he purrs. I just wanna know if he's lonely or not. -Guinea Pig luvva'

What would be a good companion animal for a lonely horse? I don't have enough pasturage for more than one horse, but she needs someone to ignore. LOL! She's a big appendix and seems lonely. Have considered sheep. Anyone know if there would be any problems with this?

Can a dying lonely man ensure that his only relative be informed and his body cremated ? A lonely man with just one brother who lives in a distant country is dying . He doesnt know when or where he may pass away . Is there a way he can ensure that his relative is informed and his deceased body is taken care of ?

How do you deal with being lonely? I don't deal with it very well. I spend too much time reading, watching tv, and talking on the phone instead of cooking good meals and cleaning. I love cooking and cleaning with someone else around but doing those things by myself makes me feel even lonelier. Therefore, I have a boring diet and my house is quite messy. Most people don't know how lonely I feel because I am fine when I am at work, with friends, or out and about. The lonliness at home is a problem because I am pretty depressed when I am at home alone. If I could get over it, I am sure I could be much more productive at home.

A good way to keep kitties from being too lonely? I am in the 6th grade and when I get home to do my homeowrk my mom tells me about how tey smothered her with love. Then While I try to do my homework they come and sit on it. Would it be possible to get them to not be too lonely, so they dont do this?

Why there are so many people fond with the feeling of lonely? Are pain and pride the compounds that form the feeling of lonely? What is the feeling of being lonely? What is that intense lonely feeling that make one feels proud? Why people love to be alone or isolated from the world? If you are one of this people, can you please explain the lonely feeling that you experience everyday? Thank you!

Which would be the best kind of pet for a lonely teenager? Which would be the best pet for a lonely teenager? A lovable pet that will stay in the house. No rats, mice, or snakes.

How to entertain a lonely old lady? My grandfather died two months ago, and my grandmother is lonely. She is beginning to depend on me to cheer her up all the time; of course, I don't mind, but I want her to have independence in case one day I can't be there, and so that she values herself. I need suggestions for things I could get her involved in. She goes to church once a week, but apart from that she doesn't have any hobbies, and everything I suggest is 'too difficult' or 'too fiddley' or 'too energetic' for her. How does an 80 year old go about making new friends?

What is something fun I can do to stop feeling lonely and bored? All my friends are hanging out together but Im too shy to go and hang out with them, Im even too scared to ring them up and ask them over.Im really leftout and lonely at the moment.Is there anything fun I can do that will make me happy again? I used to hang out with my friend all the time, but now shes busy or doing stuff with other friends.What can I do im so bored?

How long does a dog/cat have to be in the animal shelter before it is in the Lonely Hearts group?? I see a dog that's been in my local Humane Society for a month at least. At what point do they be labeled under the Lonely Hearts Club?

Will a guinea pig get lonely and die if I only have one? I'm planning of getting a guinea pig but my cousin says that it might get lonely so I need to get two. But I doubt that I will get two. I need help within three weeks! Help! Thanks to all people who have helped me out!

What treat can I give to a lonely horse? There is a lone horse in a field nearby. He has access to a small river but no water bucket or any sign of hay or cover. There is good grass in the field but clearly he is very lonely and the ground near the gate is all churned up. I'm sure he stands there all day waiting for someone to come by. He is always pleased to see me. Would it be safe to give him something? A couple of carrots or an apple? I don't want to give him colic.

What is the secret to never being lonely? Anyone have the secret or the knowledge so that we can share it with other's who may get lonely on Valentine's Day or any other day?

I get lonely and start to panic every Sunday evening. What should I do? All my friends have girlfriends or are married so I haven't seen anyone in about a year now. The only time I see anyone is at work and that's nothing to write home about. It was OK back two summers ago. Over the winter I noticed I was getting lonely when I'd just sit around the house reading books or playing video games. I don't have any family left alive and due to a medical issue I can't drive anymore. That makes it hard to meet new people and getting a girlfriend is out of the question because women hate me. This past summer has been harder for some reason. It's when I go from Friday to Monday without talking to another person I start to panic now. Everyone is out living their life and I am trapped here left behind.

Is it worse for a cat to be lonely or in a shelter? I have to be out of town for a month and I haven't been able to find a cat sitter for my kitty, even though I asked around a lot and I offered to pay people. One person has offered to come by before and after her work to take care of his basic needs. I know she won't spend much time playing with him because she's busy and has a baby. A neighbor has also offered as a back up person, but she won't be able to spend more than the minimum time with him because of her allergies. He's an outgoing cat who likes a lot of attention. Is it better to leave him in his familiar home although he may be bored and lonely, or put him in the animal shelter with all the other cats? I'm worried he might feel abandoned. He's only three and has already changed owners twice. He instantly liked the woman who offered to help. Maybe it was her mommy voice. The trouble is that the time she can spend with him will be so limited. The shelter would be temporary. It's like a cat hotel if the owners pay. There is no better quality kennel around here.

Is anyone as lonely and depressed as me this christmas eve? I am watching repeats of british sitcoms at 6pm on christmas eve on my own and I feel gut-wrenchingly lonely and depressed. Anyone else feel like this? Some of your comments just made me cry, in good way!

Do fish get lonely/depressed living in a fish tank? I have fish in a 10 gallon tank ans 3 tiny fish but I sometimes wonder if they are sad or lonely. What a boring life. I feel especially sad when people have bettas or goldfish in those really small fish bowls. Do fish have feelings? Do they get sad or depressed in their tanks?

Will my cat get lonely if i leave it home alone? I have to go to school and no one else will be home for the whole day-untill I come back. She has no companion, will she be lonely when im gone? would it help if I left her in the backyard or on the deck?

Is there anybody in the lonely planet will survived without a partner? Is there anyone will be able to live in a lonely planet with no partner or companion? But everything are there big houses, nice garden full of diffirent kinds of vegetable,fruit trees and ect....Jewelleries beautiful linen and ect....only no companion to his or her life to share?

How can I give my dogs to a lonely peoples program.? I have two great dogs, that need a ggreat place to live. I'm moving to an apartment with no pets allowed. Humane society or pound/shelter not an option. They love people and love attention. Ones a rotweiler and ones a chin. sharpet (my spelling stinks) I would love to give them to a lonely people program or help sick people program or anyone wanting well trained great manored dogs but I dont know how to give them to these type of programs. They will bring a lot of love and joy to lonely people or any children.

How can you not feel sad when you are lonely? What can you do to not feel lonely when you are lonely.

I want to read to lonely nursing home elderly people as a chartiable act - would it be allowed? I want to do something helpful for the elderly and my idea is to visit one person on a weekly basis and read the newspaper or some periodical to them and discuss with them, as a way to give them some social interaction if they are lonely. Do you think this would be a good idea as a charitable act and would the nursing home sallow that?

how can i tell if my guinea pig is lonely? he is almost 11 months old. how do i tell if he is lonely. i take him out during the day. since school it starting tommorow i want to get him a friend so he wont be lonely when im at school. i alredy have extra cubes and coroplast from when i made his cage so the expantion shouldn't be hard. when would be the ideal age to get him a friend? i was planning on waiting untill like december when i can ask for it as a present. im planning on getting another male so that i dont have to get him nutered. my vet and the animal shelter said that getting him a buddy would not really be a good idea but i think he would be much happier with a friend. how can i convince my parents that i am ready for another one and that its really what is best for the guinea pig. i'm going to start by cleaning my room. i have alredy started walking the dog every day and my guinea pig is certainly getting all of the care he needs (possibly more). i only want serious answers please. also what age should the friend be. im planning on adopting and they usually have 2yr olds 1yr olds and 7/8 month olds. please dont tell me that males will fight because i know this is not true the vet didnt say not to get him a friend she just said that males are trickier to find friends for

Is it possible for sociopaths to be lonely? They say I'm a sociopath, but I have to wonder now, is it normal for sociopaths to feel lonely/isolated? Yeah. I got checked out 2 years ago.

Where is the reference to a lonely god in Brisingr? I finished Brisingr, and read Christopher Paolini's afterword, and he mentioned a reference to a lonely god during Arya's and Eragon's campfire, and said that the doctor can travel anywhere, even alternate dimensions. I am sure that the Doctor is Doctor Who, and cannot find where this reference is. If anyone knows where it is, i would appreciate it.

Who else feels particularly lonely since having a baby? I am currently a stay-at-home mom and I'm hopefully going to have a 20 hour a week (weekday early morning) job. But for the past 9 and a half months I feel so lonely. My husband is working 7 days a week now and that is the most difficult part because we at least used to visit people and the weekends and see each other more. Personally baby talk doesn't do much for conversational needs lol. Anyone else feel this way too? Any ideas on how to feel better? Activities you recommend etc.?

What can I do when I feel lonely and miserable? Lately I have been feeling really lonely and miserable. I have been at home all summer rarely going out. Since I just moved I dont have anyone that I can hang out with and I often feel depress because Im wasting my all summer without going out and doing the things that I use to do with my friends. What are some things that I can do to feel better? I tried making friends but is pretty hard because there aren't any kids around my age.

What are good strategies when you are feeling lonely and depressed? I am 21 years old, I dont think there is anything seriously wrong with me but around this time of year I feel very lonely and isolated and I just feel like everybody has walked out on me. What should I do to help feel better rather than just a "quick fix?"

how to make an lonely elderly person happy in order to get inheritance? he is 81 yrs old, no children, lonely, has siblings but rarely meet. He enjoys my company very much, i was the only one spent weekends with him.

What are the long term effects on the brain of feeling lonely? i seem to feel lonely alot lately and want to know of any side affects.

What is the best thing can do somebody to be happy when he is lonely? Just talk about activities and so you know that come from mind and ideas so you must talk about the decisions and the way to be happy when being lonely.

what type of personality will make a lonely elderly person? i noticed some elderly people have a happy elderly life with family surrounding them, they have more peaceful and happy time. Yet others have a lonely and quite elderly life, with less or no family ties, what type of person will be more likely to have a lonely elderly life?

Is it possible to be lonely in a big city? Being in NYC, you'd think it would be an advantage to meet people. But even though I try to go to new places and do different things, being in a big city makes me feel so lonely. What should I do?

How do you know someone is lonely? I mean lonely in their soul or spirit, where people they know, which include their own family and relatives, don't understand them or care about their life. Would such a lonely person pretend to be happy and would such a person be social, when in fact, he or she is shy and quiet?

I am going to be home alone for 2 weeks, i think i might get lonely and bored, any suggestions? My dads going on holiday, so i'm staying at his house for 2 weeks to look after the house and pets, but i think i might get bored and lonely, any ideas?

Why the Lonely Planet China is banned in China? I actually asked this last week, but I was out of town and couldn't respond to some of the comments while the question expired. What i said was: Can anyone tell me why LP China is banned in China? I know that one reason is because they list the crime rate in tourist areas, like the number of tourists that get knifed by Chinese locals at Guilin, and a lot of other crimes in Beijing, ect. Anyone else know any reasons as to why it might be banned? A few Chinese people said that it wasn't banned, but the fact is it is banned. I've been to countless bookstore in malls, 5 star hotels, and airports in China and it is no where to be found. In fact it's the Chinese store owners who informed me that it is banned. There are plenty of Lonely Planet books in China, but those are all about other countries. However, you will not find the volume that is about China. Listen Jim, China is very safe in terms of serious crime like rape or murder, but other crimes like robbery, and assault are through the roof. In fact I the number of petty crimes like scams and pick pockets are so astronomically high that the only number I can compare it to is how many bullets have been fired in Iraq over the past 3 years. On the other hand, for every murder you have in the US we will have 10 people who are killed by a stupid Chinese driver who runs a red light. Don't know about you but that's not what I call a safe country.

What can I do about living alone and being lonely? Any ideas about how I can make myself feel better about living alone? Its really lonely. I just moved out of my parents house.